Last year around Valentine’s Day I did a post about Oils for the Bedroom and Foods for Libido but I didn’t write anything about homeopathic or lifestyle changes that can increase your libido – so here it goes! I don’t know what other’s thoughts are on sex but I am married and have high hopes of continuing an active sex life until we are physically unable! Why would I not wish for that if I plan to be married until death do us part? Intimacy is important, it’s actually God’s wish for us to enjoy sex(!) – and it can get easily lost in the hustle and flow of everyday life.
I did some research on homeopathic ways to increase your desire for sex and intimacy and here are five natural ways to help your sex life!
Buy a sex book and read it with your partner
There is a reason why romance novels are always best-sellers. Notice that feeling you get while reading pages of hot sex where both partners orgasm together in perfect harmony (ha!)? Well, humans have mirror neurons that fire off when we watch something being done to someone else; sadness, joy, and sex are all examples of these mirror neurons. Whether it’s reading a sexy novel together or scanning pages of a Kama Sutra book, fire off those mirror neurons and use them for the better good of your sex life!
Talk about a fantasy
The sexiest organ in our body is the brain and there is a reason why talking about sex makes us want to have sex! Talking about a fantasy – or sex at all – can be very intimidating and scary. That is why if you plan one night a month to discuss a fantasy and know that you and your partner will both be diving into this subject matter, it makes it less intimidating. It’s very hard to talk about a fantasy without wanting to act it out afterward – in some form.
Buy lingerie or browse a sex store with your partner
Once again, just being in the same sight of sex can fire off those vagina butterflies, hence the reason for browsing a sexy store. If you take time to browse sexy lingerie or buy a new toy, you are more likely to get the excitement to go home and experiment with said toy. It could be a mind-blowing experience or something completely comical which at least allows for a good story afterward!
Try a fore-play sex toy
Did you know something like this even existed? Take it from yours truly, they work. Working on those kegel muscles will not only allow you to have better and more pleasurable sex but it will also get you in the mood! On top of this, there are even kegel apps you can download to help in the process to make sure you are exercising that body part correctly! Some good kegel toys and apps can be found here and here.
Have more sex!
In the words of Rachel Hollis, “you know what makes you want more orgasms? Orgasms! It sounds somewhat contrary but it’s true, the more sex and orgasms you have, the more you want it. Ever notice after a night of intimacy you feel closer or the desire to be intimate again? Just like sugar, tobacco, or alcohol, your body craves that “feel-good feeling” and the more you give in to that craving, the more you want it.